𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝟐𝟎'𝐬
You will ruin your 20's by feeling like you are behind, like everyone else has figured themselves out while you are still lost, instead of realizing that you are exactly where you are meant to be. You are allowed to be a mess right now, you have permission to not have it all together. That thing you think isn't working out for you is all part of everything working out for you. Don't rush, be patient, let life be beautiful. Be happy and appreciate life. You are doing your absolute best.
This is what the twenties are for- self care, growth and investments.
Travel, explore, pursue hobbies, experience things you want to experience, because this is a time of your life when you can. This is when you should learn how to love yourself because you are the best advocate you have. You need to learn to love your flaws, don't compare yourself to others, work on your boundaries because you can't be everything to everyone and nothing to yourself.
Pour into the things that preserve you, build up on friendships, write your goals down, read a lot of books, do what makes you happy, make time for your loved ones, eat healthy, exercise, invest for your golden years, have open conversations with yourself in regards to how you are feeling, spend time alone with yourself, learn how to cook, stop being okay with everything and make sure you are treated right, manage your time, show up for those who show up for you, glow up, have standards and focus on yourself.
Take a breather and slow down. Take chances in life, try new things, learn new skills and master them, do something that scares you. Be selfish with your time, find a wholesome love that calms and elevates you and make memories.
Your twenties will be filled with messiness, uncertainty, confusion, mistakes and the good times, embrace every moment. It's all going to workout, trust the timing of your life.
Life is too short to be anything other than happy!
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